It’s all fun and games until someone ends up in a cone
Over the past few months, I’ve had a handful of ‘crises’ to handle that seemed to pile one on top of another. But that’s how it goes right? When we feel we can’t handle any more, we are faced with another situation to do just that — handle it. And we get through it. Breath by breath, I realized that as each moment passed, I was one more moment through the chaos.
Most recently, my 9 year old dog, Hattie, tore her ACL. This is the second in two years that required invasive surgery with a long rehabilitation. I’d heard that there’s a very good chance that a dog who tears one ACL will tear the other within a year or so. Ironically, I did everything I could to protect her from exactly the situation we’re in now. What I’ve learned, though, is that Hattie doesn’t think about the previous surgery or what the future holds. She just knows what’s happening now; she adjusts her gait; she rests; and she faces the moment with whatever adjustments need to be made — without thought.
Dogs are our ultimate yoga teachers. If only we could all learn to take each moment wag by wag.
Whenever I see a dog print in mud or even muddy pawprints on my floor, I smile because they remind me that there is unconditional love in the world, and in my home. A friend of mine flies a paramotor, … Continue reading →
French writer, Milan Kundera once said, “Dogs are our link to paradise. They don’t know evil or jealousy or discontent. To sit with a dog on a hillside on a glorious afternoon is to be back in Eden, where doing … Continue reading →
For those of you under the age of 40 (yea, I can say that now), you may not know who Erma Bombeck is. She was a humorist and newspaper columnist from the 1960s through the 1990s. She wrote a column after she found out that she had cancer entitled, “If I Had My Life to Live Over.”
In the piece, she talks about all of the little things that she took for granted that she would embrace if she had to do it over. Two of my favorite lines are, “I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage,” and, “I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.” Well, my children have four legs and fur, but I still love how she articulates “seizing the moment.”
I think about this piece very often when I catch myself becoming overly concerned about the superficial at the expense of the deeply meaningful. When I come home from work, I’m greeted with the unconditional love of my two dogs, Hattie & Ivy — 120 lbs. of unconditional love that is. As soon as I walk in the door, they’re bursting with so much excitement to see me that they just about knock me down. Continue reading →